Dude I am sorry to hear this. It happens though and you can let one woman ruin you. I have had an ex say simular things and it sucked and hurt at first but I got over it because I wouldn't have wanted to be in a relationship with someone so shallow.
I know man but when you love someone and believe they love you back, then this happens... I know it is going to be hard to believe a woman for awhile. Maybe I should ride it out solo for awhile.
Take it from a woman, for every shallow and childish woman out there, there are 5 who are worth the time. You will meet someone who will make you understand why it didn't work out with her.
I hope you are right. I know not all women are this way but it is hard to find the ones who aren't. They are either taken or don't like me. The struggle.
Maybe it is not that she didn't love you, but the reasons why she loved you weren't the right reasons? Most people who "fall in love" are high on ero love which is physical. Maybe it was all physical for her and she wanted the real deal. Don't let it get you down. You will find someone. I thought I would die alone a few years ago. I met the woman of my dreams and she is the female version of me.
I know it was physical in the begining. Out first date ended in sex and our relationship was all about sex for the first few months. Best sex I ever had too. Maybe you are right then. For her it was just sex. Funny how people assume it is only men who do this.
Be a better man from the experience. Don't let her childishness ruin future relationships for you. Women like this are a dime a dozen. You want to find that 2 cent gem.
2 cent gem made me laugh. Sounds like it is the end of a hooker joke LOL I get what you are saying though. Find the 2 cent difference of the dozen. I hope to find her some day.
If a woman is concerned about the height of her children, she will not be a good parent. She was probably judged alot growing up. Don't take it too personal because that is her issue, not yours.
You could be right on this. I never cared for her mother. She was always very hard on her about her appearance.
Some women date our of habit. Not wanting to be alone and all. I think you just have to take this for what it was, an experience with the wrong kind of woman.
Dating out of habit not to be alone is a bs move in my book. Yeah no one wants to be alone but doing this just strings along people. Why fake it till you make it? It is bs.
I hate that fake it till you make it line or date mr right now and maybe he will become mr right in time. It is all bs and I am sick of it. If you dont want to be in a relationship and just want a cuddle buddy, state that. Don't lead someone on to care about you and leave them hanging.
Some women date our of habit. Not wanting to be alone and all. I think you just have to take this for what it was, an experience with the wrong kind of woman.
I am begining to think this is the case for a lot of women. It is a shame because some of the most beautiful women are the most shallow and empty.
They get by on their looks. This alone sets them to be this way. People always tell them how beautiful they are and they buy into it knowing they can get their way based on that alone.
Be a better man from the experience. Don't let her childishness ruin future relationships for you. Women like this are a dime a dozen. You want to find that 2 cent gem.
2 cent gem made me laugh. Sounds like it is the end of a hooker joke LOL I get what you are saying though. Find the 2 cent difference of the dozen. I hope to find her some day.
You will you gotta keep your head up and just avoid the skanks. I know that sounds bad but let be honest, anyone who is all about looks, money, and sex is a skank.
So my ex dumped me over not wanting to marry a man who was short. According to her friends she loved me deeply but she didn't want short kids. Now at first this made me laugh but now that a week has went by, I am pissed. How dare she claim she loves me and then tells her friends some BS like that. We haven't been together in 3 months, and I haven't seen her in nearly 4. The last few weeks of our relationship she was on VK and broke up with me from Mexico. Go figure.
I actually asked her hand and she turned me down saying she wasn't ready, and then 2 months later I got dumped. I feel embarassed, little, not good enough, I mean... Just like crap. The thing that I can't let go of is that she claimed to love me. Love don't pull crap like this. So I wonder how long she hasn't loved me for.
WHy bother wondering? She sounds like she is one of the women you DON'T want to marry. Think about how she will be with her kids if they don't meet her standards. I don't care how sweet or attractive a woman is, this sounds messed up.
Some women date our of habit. Not wanting to be alone and all. I think you just have to take this for what it was, an experience with the wrong kind of woman.
I am begining to think this is the case for a lot of women. It is a shame because some of the most beautiful women are the most shallow and empty.
That's because they have choices. Is what it is. If she's beautiful, she's going to have her pick. Why should she settle for you? It makes her no shallow than you because you were looking for someone beautiful.
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