I have to vent

Dez · 05-31-2015 at 02:26 pm post #1

Vent

So my ex dumped me over not wanting to marry a man who was short. According to her friends she loved me deeply but she didn't want short kids. Now at first this made me laugh but now that a week has went by, I am pissed. How dare she claim she loves me and then tells her friends some BS like that. We haven't been together in 3 months, and I haven't seen her in nearly 4. The last few weeks of our relationship she was on VK and broke up with me from Mexico. Go figure.

I actually asked her hand and she turned me down saying she wasn't ready, and then 2 months later I got dumped. I feel embarassed, little, not good enough, I mean... Just like crap. The thing that I can't let go of is that she claimed to love me. Love don't pull crap like this. So I wonder how long she hasn't loved me for.

Dark Willow · 06-01-2015 at 04:38 pm post #2

Some women date our of habit. Not wanting to be alone and all. I think you just have to take this for what it was, an experience with the wrong kind of woman.

Mr Dixon · 06-01-2015 at 11:34 pm post #3

Dude I am sorry to hear this. It happens though and you can let one woman ruin you. I have had an ex say simular things and it sucked and hurt at first but I got over it because I wouldn't have wanted to be in a relationship with someone so shallow.

Jelly Kelly · 06-01-2015 at 11:44 pm post #4

Take it from a woman, for every shallow and childish woman out there, there are 5 who are worth the time. You will meet someone who will make you understand why it didn't work out with her.

Bonez · 06-04-2015 at 01:58 pm post #5

Maybe it is not that she didn't love you, but the reasons why she loved you weren't the right reasons? Most people who "fall in love" are high on ero love which is physical. Maybe it was all physical for her and she wanted the real deal. Don't let it get you down. You will find someone. I thought I would die alone a few years ago. I met the woman of my dreams and she is the female version of me.

Catman · 06-05-2015 at 09:08 pm post #6

Be a better man from the experience. Don't let her childishness ruin future relationships for you. Women like this are a dime a dozen. You want to find that 2 cent gem.

Dale · 06-05-2015 at 09:17 pm post #7

If a woman is concerned about the height of her children, she will not be a good parent. She was probably judged alot growing up. Don't take it too personal because that is her issue, not yours.

Jinx · 06-07-2015 at 07:37 pm post #8

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Originally posted by Dark Willow

Some women date our of habit. Not wanting to be alone and all. I think you just have to take this for what it was, an experience with the wrong kind of woman.

Dating out of habit not to be alone is a bs move in my book. Yeah no one wants to be alone but doing this just strings along people. Why fake it till you make it? It is bs.

Mr Dixon · 06-12-2015 at 01:11 pm post #9

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Originally posted by Dale

If a woman is concerned about the height of her children, she will not be a good parent. She was probably judged alot growing up. Don't take it too personal because that is her issue, not yours.

I agree with this. You don't want kids with someone who will be judging on them as well as you.

Dez · 06-12-2015 at 01:54 pm post #10

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Originally posted by Dark Willow

Some women date our of habit. Not wanting to be alone and all. I think you just have to take this for what it was, an experience with the wrong kind of woman.

I am begining to think this is the case for a lot of women. It is a shame because some of the most beautiful women are the most shallow and empty.