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d11221Nikki Glaser is attractive enough that she will have no problem getting a guy if she is really desiring one, and she has the 1 thing that a guy looks for more than anything in a female and that is a "fit" body, unless you are an obscenly ugly in the face female or maybe one of these freak cases where you have an extreme amount of body hair, a female will have NO issue getting a guy if they have a "fit" body, a "fit" female is the equivalent of a tall male, as a short male is the equivalent of a fat female, except we all know which of these 4 people are pretty much screwed as there is nothing they are able to do about their situation
This is the one thing short guys with your mindset have to get out of their heads. This comes from scarcity mindset.
So what if she can get a man? Most women can "get" men.
Does that mean:
a) she can keep him?
b) She can marry a high value man? (not a simp)
There will be some dumb beta chump who would try to wife this post-wall hack up, good for him. A guy who takes on a woman who has been ran through, married several times gets everything he deserves. Yes, I will admit that her being fit does help her a lot, but being fit will help you too.
Plenty of women can "get sex" and temporary company. You see this as a plus because it's not something that the average guy, regardless of height can get. He has to work for it, and the average short guy will have to work harder for it. "Getting sex" or "Getting someone" isn't a female struggle, so it shouldn't be something to be bummed out about. For them keeping a man is the struggle, especially if it is that 6ft guy they crave. They have a plethora of options and do not have to settle.
Plenty of these women get cheated on and mistreated by high value men and resent the betas they marry (ultimately, carving out their insides in divorce court).
A short guy is not the equivalent to a fat female, a broke/unambitious guy is.
It will take a while for you to understand this.
Men aren't made to look pretty, though looks help.
Men win in the end because we are not valued for our looks. Looks absolutely help, but we are judged by what we bring to the table. It will take you a while to understand this. You can be mad about it, but for every man who complains about women only being around for their accomplishments/lifestyle/status, I'll show you a man who is only around a woman because of her looks.
For everyone who says, "Kevin Hart wouldn't have women were it not for his money", I'll show you a tall celebrity who would have the same luck, and would be ignored if he were a Pizza Delivery man.
Once you get this, you'll see that while being short is a HINDERANCE, it isn't a death sentence.
You learn this from dating and getting action. You get dates and action by upping your style, fitness, money and everything about your life in the up direction.
There is no reason why a lot of 5'5 and 5'6 guys in this forum are reporting success if it "can't be"
Remember, there are too many factors.
Ugly and short = two big struggles
The "Hot Short Guy" is actually a novel concept because it does exist.
I have friends from High School who were short, but had nice eyes according to the ladies and they had girls all over them.
Friends who were short in college, but dressed really well and wore the best colognes and had takers.
You guys need to get out and see the world for the trees.
Once you understand this, a HUGE weight will be lifted from your shoulders.
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