The "height" question?

Jinx · 05-13-2015 at 01:05 pm post #1

Dating

So I am curious on everyone's take on this. I have been talking to this woman online for a few months now and we have some great convos. I mean we talk about life, death, God, space, and beyond. Well, we were talking about meeting up this summer. She lives in another state. Well last night she randomly asked me my height and I didn't know how to answer her. She is on the shorter side though I am not sure her exact height. When she asked I made a few jokes and changed the subject. So today I got a text asking me if I am super short or super tall because I avoided the question. I don't know what to say. Would it bother you if someone asked out of no where?

Mr Dixon · 05-16-2015 at 10:59 pm post #2

Did you respond yet? I would imagine you did by now. I think she just wanted to know because it is something she is curious about not that she is worried you are too short or too tall. If she cared over vanity it would have came up sooner.

ShortNProud · 05-17-2015 at 10:27 pm post #3

I am not sure how I would take it or handle it but I think Dixon is right. If it was an issue for her or a deal breaker she woulda asked right away.

Spider · 05-17-2015 at 10:52 pm post #4

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Originally posted by Mr Dixon

Did you respond yet? I would imagine you did by now. I think she just wanted to know because it is something she is curious about not that she is worried you are too short or too tall. If she cared over vanity it would have came up sooner.

Or she could have not known how to bring it up. I mean for me, when I am talking to someone online and want to know their body shape/height, I never know how to ask thought I am thinking about it right from the start.

Dez · 05-31-2015 at 02:29 pm post #5

She would have asked right away if it was a big deal for sure. I wouldn't worry about it or over think it. I am curious what came of this though.

Bonez · 06-04-2015 at 02:07 pm post #6

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Originally posted by darkale

Just tell her as soon as she asks. If she cares then it will be out of the way and you can move on. That's how I look at it.

This. Don't waste time beating around the bush about it. Why put emotion into a relationship that will end on something so shallow?

ThatFlyShortGuy · 06-05-2015 at 10:11 am post #7

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Originally posted by darkale

Just tell her as soon as she asks. If she cares then it will be out of the way and you can move on. That's how I look at it.

Ding ding ding! I could care less if a women thinks I'm too short. Best to get that out of the way first so there are no problems later. Seriously....

SharkApple · 06-05-2015 at 08:12 pm post #8

Yeah don't wait on this. If it is a deal breaker for her, why invest more time?

Jinx · 06-07-2015 at 07:33 pm post #9

I forgot I posted this. haha Yeah I ended up telling her and it slowly became nothing. She talked less, was suddenly busy... Blah blah. Ah well. A friend of mine's gf has a friend she wants to set me up with. I seen her on facebook and she is very beautiful. I will have to see how that goes.

Thanks for all the feed back!